Separated

Life is very particular
With many things
One being the closeness you are to other people
It varies with the energy you put out

For example
You and your Girlfriend are getting a long fine
And then something happens
And you start fighting

The something could be big or small
It doesn't really matter
What is the matter is the affect
The fight has on the two of you

As saying someone is wrong
Immediately create separation
If they are ever better or worse than you
Then there is separation in the energy

You can actually notice and see
When the separation taking place
As both people act more removed
And the love hides behind the anger

And you can feel the separation
If you choose to notice with your heart
As the closeness once shared
Is now the same with space in the middle

How much space depends upon you
And how wrong you choose to see them
As if they are ever right or wrong
There creates separation

What I have learned is to make them right
Make everyone right
As in making them right
I am not only right but freed

As it is much work to make people wrong
Negative is easier to do
But harder on you
It takes much work to be negative

So it may be second nature
To flick someone off
But it also has a horrible effect on you
And drains you too

If you are tired all the time
Notice that the energy you put out
Is probably negative
And that hurts you first

Fighting hurts the both of you
And that separates you too
The best way to retain closeness
Is for them always to be your equal

If they are ever above or below you
Then there is separation

But on the other side
There is no separation
At all
Ever

We are all connected
And the separation you create
Happens only in your mind
It Never actually happens

So if you feel separated
All you have to do is notice it
As if you live like separation is made up
Then you know nothing needs to be done